Today I got an email from one of our leaders, Naomi Gillis, and she shared with me something she had written to a group of students who are soon becoming adults. I thought it was an incredibly wise word and asked her if I could share it with everyone here on the blog. So here it is, hope you enjoy as much as I did:
You’re excited, you can’t wait to be treated like the adult you know you are. However, fyi, you haven’t received your diploma yet and your parents still pay for most everything. I’m excited for you to be adults! But, while being an adult means you have more freedom it also means you are expected to be more responsible. Most people want to take the freedom, run with it and leave responsibility behind. I’m sure you feel that way at least some of the time. Who wouldn’t? Unfortunely, it is not wise, not profitable, not uplifting, not helpful, not attractive and won’t last. Life as adult probably looks really good right now but over time you will realize that there is a price to the freedom and it can be hard to preserve even in the simple ‘expected’ things like going to class, work, ect but its even harder to preserve in doing the things that don’t always have immediate consequences (positive/negative). No one may know that you’ve stopped relying on God or praying. You may know enough about the Bible and most people won’t realize that you haven’t read it in a few days, weeks, months. It may not be a big deal that you don’t attend church as much, don’t give as much or do things just so that they’re ‘done’. The gradual fade may even be missed by you but please resist the temptation as you prepare to leave home and begin to become an adult. It is a process and doesn’t come with age! Don’t believe the excuses that ‘you’re just really busy right now’, ‘some other people/things just needed your attention’, ‘ this is just a season that you’re going through’. I don’t know what you may be thinking but I know and remember being there. I remember not wanting to ‘keep it up’. I remember not wanting to be as involved. I remember slipping little by little and I remember the consequences of each of those passive decisions. Please don’t fade! I’ve noticed that certain things don’t seem to be as important. I know the excitement of change. I know you will all excel. I know that there are great and amazing plans in store for you. Please be prepared for them, be ready, the enticements of the world are shiny and cheap but you won’t know unless you are familiar with what is lasting. I love you guys and that’s something I wanted you to know…
Be a good steward of where God has you now, stay faithful, and pursue Christ. Thanks for sharing your heart Naomi.